Moving On

It’s been a while again since the last time I write, things about my life are currently not doing fine. As I have written in my past post, things were not doing well the way we plan it. I mean, there’s someone up there who’s in control of everything, and I do not have any complains about that.

They say that moving on is the hardest part of this existence. Please consider this “moving on” as a general point of view. I am not talking this just about love-life as all may assume that moving-on is about heart breaks only. This is in generally speaking guys!

To be honest, I am a very hands-on with every details of my life. Considering also the people around me. My students know me being a definitely futuristic woman. I mean, I would plan out every thing and every little of it. I love details, as you know.

Everyone has its own problems. Who does not have? Hehehe But as we see, this life is like a canvass. There are bright colors that represent with good feelings, happy moments ~ happiness, and there are also the dark colors in which represents down side of our lives. It’s a 2 in 1 action, it’ll never be completed without the present of bright color vice-a-verse.

Problems come and go, sometimes they come in a pair or trio, most of the times they are life changing. As you see, our life changes are the product of our problems. The way we solve them and adjust to it is the result of the life we have today. I guess you are now reflecting on your life now.

Well I am writing about move-on here. Hehehe

So be it, problems are problems. They will never be gone. They will always be part of our lives. Okay?

Move-on is a big word.

It’s like a big knife cutting into your heart then strip some part of it and leave it hanging until it heals itself all alone.

We do manage our problems the way how we feel it will be solved or live with or leave with it. What makes me so so so wrong the way I deal with my problems is that I am putting so much pressure on it. I mean, I am on-stress, I can’t concentrate at work, I can’t enjoy things the way I usually enjoy them like writing (that’s why it took me couple of days before I could write again). You know what’s wrong with me is that I indulge myself into problems and let them affect my day-to-day life. This is wrong, I know, and I can’t help it.

What matters mostly is that I can get back to myself again, compose and set another goals. That’s me. That’s doing the lenny-way.

After dealing with the problem/s here comes the finale. ~ Moving on. Gaaawd!

Let’s be honest! I mean, all of us has been through pains; mentally or emotionally. Be it.

With all those painful situations, nothing can make us even happier again if we can’t get back to ourselves. You guys know about what to do’s for moving on and I will not writing it now because it’s a case to case basis somehow. I’ll share mine some time, perhaps.

Learning to compose yourself is the best shot you could do and offer to your life. I mean, everyone deserves to be happy after all. Especially yourself, myself.

Acceptance wheter on a positive result or negative result is the key to this magical word as “moving-on”.

You know that life goes on!

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One thought on “Moving On

  1. Nabasa ko ang dalawang post mo, ang Way Out at ito ngang Moving On, kahit hindi mo naikuwento ang totoong problema, palagay ko ay nararamdaman kita, medyo nakaka-relate ng konti kung sakaling iyon nga ang problema mo (hindi ko na rin sasabihin at kung sakaling iba) ito naman ang maipapayo o naging experience ko regarding facing problems. Ang problema ay nagkakaiba-iba sa degree ng pagharap na ginagawa natin dito. Mayroong mga nangangailangan ng urgent solutions, mayroon hayaan mo lang iyan mawawala din iyan. Pero sa totoo lang, hindi naman talaga ang problema, sa halip, ikaw ang nagiging problema, masyado mong ibinubuhos ang sarili mo dito at hindi mo na nabibigyang pansin na napakaraming magagandang bagay ang nangyayari, napakaraming mga taong nagmamahal sa iyo at mahal ka ng Diyos (walang makakakontra sa huli kong binanggit). Isa pa sa paraan ko ng pag-solve ko ng problema ay inaanalayze ko muna ito, kayang lutasin, eh di lutasin natin, medyo mahirap lutasin, subaukan natin at kung kailangan ng tulong, humingi ng tulong. Kung ito ay hindi mahanapan ng solusyon sa pagkakataong iyon, ibig kong sabihin, naisip mo na ang mga dapat gawin pero hindi umaayon ang sitwasyon at ang iba pang mga taoing involved sa problema, ang ginagawa ko diyan, kumbaga sa mga files na kailangan kong gawin, hinuhugot ko tio mula sa unahan at inilalagay sa pinaka-ilalim, bakit ako mag-uubos ng oras sa isang bagay na halos ay walang kalutasan at hindi lang ako ang may kontrol sa nasabing sitwasyon. “Diyan ka sa hulihan,” sabi ko pa. Kaya lang, iba pa rin siyempre kapag babae, hindi ko naman sinasabing mas mahina kayo, mas emosyonal siguro at mas focused sa paggawa ng mga bagay bagay. At ang isa pang problema, kapag paulit-ulit na nagbabalik-balik ito sa iyong isipan, wala ka talagang matatapos, sikapin mong mapalitan ito ng ‘happy thoughts’ mahirap, pero naniniwala akong matapang ka at anumang problemang iyong pinagdadaanan ay malulutas at kung hindi man ay mapapawi, lalo na kung sasamahan mo ng dasal. Wish ko lang sana habang binasaba mo ito ay okey ka na at solved na ang problemang pinagdaanan mo. Puwede mo namang i-PM ang Tito mo at kung hindi ko kaya di magpapatulong ako sa Tita mo. GOD BLESS!

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